Living With Eye Cancer
Not everyone with eye cancer will have changes in sexual desire or how they feel about themselves sexually. You might not notice any changes at all. But you might find cancer changes your body image affecting the way you feel about yourself and sex.
Some people lose interest in sex and feel very tired. But some people say that they want to have sex more than usual. If you are in a relationship, a crisis can sometimes bring couples very close together.
As people are so different and have different sexual needs, it is impossible to say exactly how eye cancer will affect your sexuality and sex life. If you are in a loving relationship your concerns may be different from someone who is single.
If your feelings about your body and having sex change during your cancer treatment, it doesn't mean that it will last forever. If you are able to talk to your partner, doctor or nurses about your worries it can ease them. They may be able to suggest ways to help improve any problems you're having.
Changes in your appearance and sight may make you feel less confident about sex. If you have surgery to remove an eye and have an artificial eye you may worry about how this looks to your partner.
Although other people may not notice you have an artificial eye, you know that you have one. This can take time to come to terms with. If surgery has affected other parts of your face and you are not happy with how you look, you may be able to have further surgery to help correct this.
Many problems with sex after cancer will get better with time and a little patience. There is help available for you.
Remember problems with sex are very common. This is even for people who do not have cancer. They are just not always talked about much.
Talk to your surgeon or specialist nurse about any worries you have about your appearance. Talking about sex can be difficult and many people find it very embarrassing. It might take courage to bring the subject up. Sometimes your questions can be answered there and then. If not, or if you feel that your cancer doctor or nurse is uncomfortable talking about sex, then you can ask about finding a counsellor or therapist.
Talking to a counsellor or sex therapist can help you to find ways of overcoming difficulties. You can see a sex therapist if you are single. If you are in a relationship, you can go alone or with your partner. It might be useful to talk things through as a couple, if you can.
If you are able to talk to your partner about your worries, you will both gradually get used to your new situation. Things will feel less awkward. A caring and loving partner can help to ease your concerns. So it is important to include them and try talking to them about your feelings.
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Last reviewed: 06 Dec 2024
Next review due: 06 Dec 2027
Coping with eye cancer can be difficult. There is help and support available.
Treatment for eye cancer may change your appearance. There are things you can do that may help you to cope with these changes.
Eyesight problems can range from very minor changes in your vision to complete loss of sight in one eye.
Your treatment depends on several factors. These include what type of eye cancer you have, how big it is and whether it has spread (the stage). It also depends on your general health.
Eye cancer includes different types of cancer. The type of eye cancer you have depends on the type of cell it starts in. There are different parts of the eye, and some of these are more likely to get cancer than others.
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