Coping with cancer
During the last few months or weeks of life, someone dying from their cancer might have symptoms, strong emotions or other challenges to cope with. There is help and support for people who are dying with cancer, as well as for their carers, friends and relatives.
Not everyone is ready to read about what happens when someone is dying. Some of the information here can be upsetting and difficult to cope with. You might want to skip this information and come back to it later. Or if you do read on, you may want to have someone close by to support you.
The news that you are going to die soon can be very hard for everyone. You and those around you can go through a range of emotions. Knowing more about what to expect can help you and those around you cope better.
Children of all ages will probably need a lot of support when someone close to them is dying. It can help to know what they might ask and need.
In the last few weeks you could have questions about what will happen. You may also want to make decisions about your needs before you die and afterwards.
Looking after someone in the last weeks of life can be a huge emotional and physical challenge. It’s important to take time for yourself and get support.
How cancer causes death depends on your cancer type and which parts of the body are affected.
In the last weeks of life there are ways to manage your symptoms and keep you comfortable. It can help carers to know what might happen in the final days.
Emotional and practical support can be a great help to you and your carers when you are dying.
Knowing what to do when someone dies can feel overwhelming, especially with all the emotions that grief can bring.
There are many organisations and support groups that can help you cope when you are dying with cancer. They can also help the people close to you.
Last reviewed: 17 Jan 2025
Next review due: 17 Jan 2028
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